Obama, then about 21, had written to ex-girlfriend Alex McNear that he 
viewed gay sex as “an attempt to remove oneself from the present, a refusal perhaps to perpetuate the endless farce of earthly life.” Then came the money quote: “You see, I make love to men daily, but in the imagination. My mind is androgynous to a great extent and I hope to make it more so.”
Why I Chose to Tackle Obama’s Sexuality
